If you ask yourself, “Why don’t guys like me?” This honest relationship quiz exposes the REAL reason why you feel that way and shows how to fix it.
The Reason Most Guys Don’t Like You
Guys might not like you because you are overly insecure, negative, spoiled, manipulating, or needy. But it’s false to assume all men dislike you since every person has a specific taste in romantic or sexual partners.
Is It Possible to be Someone Every Guy Likes?
It’s impossible to be or become a person every man loves. Popularity is directly connected to feelings, thoughts, and tastes. So, you might be Adolf Hitler and still find people who want to date you. No matter how hard you try, you cannot convince everyone to like or adore you because you cannot change their individual views on attractiveness.
What if It’s You (NOT Every Man on the Planet)?
Your question for now is, “Am I lovely?” But what if it’s actually you who doesn’t like yourself? Your brain might be projecting negative thoughts onto others to make it bearable. But if you want a true answer, look deep into your judgments and see if the idea of being unlikable is actually coming from an unexpected place.
The Logical Problem with Saying, “Guys Don’t Like Me”
To say something like that, you have to ask every guy in the world whether or not they like you. And even if there’s ONE man who says the opposite, you can’t walk around complaining how not a single soul appreciates you. Logically speaking, there are millions (if not billions) of guys who’d at least want to get to know you. But you’re closing the doors to all of them by assuming no one adores you.
3 Things That NEVER Prove Any Man Likes You
Unfortunately, people asking “Why don’t guys like me?” usually have false reasons to think so. They look into the wrong aspects of their love or date life to come up with such a negative conclusion. But the following situations would never indicate you’re unlikable or dismissed by men.
Having no one to hit on you.
You may be like, “Why don’t guys hit on me?” But the thing is that men don’t walk around hitting on random people all they long. And even if they did, it wouldn’t prove anything negative about you if they ignored you. It’s a false belief that the more guys hit on you, the more preferable and popular you are. Most of the time, it only means that you seem cool with flirting and having a chitchat with strangers, and it makes you more approachable than the rest.
Not being asked out.
There’s no rule that only guys should make the first move. And it doesn’t mean you’re undesirable if no prince with a white horse shows up at your doorway every afternoon to take you out. The thing is that a guy might not ask you out for the same reason you avoid asking him out. Fear of rejection? Insecurity? Shyness? (You name it). But it’s cruel to assume it’s because you’re unattractive.
Being single for a long time (or forever).
You may ask yourself, “Why am I single?” thinking that it’s probably because no one likes you. But that’s not true. There are a zillion famous, rich, and super-attractive people who are single or died as a single person. Just take a look at the list of celebrities who’ve never married. Leonardo DiCaprio, Chris Evans, Shakira, Charlize Theron, Keanu Reeves, and the list goes on. Should these super-attractive and successful people feel difficult to get on with? We highly doubt that.
Things That Actually Make You Unlikable: It’s Not Being Ugly!
Okay, let’s face it. You can turn into someone who most people reject and don’t want to date. But you need to be a total jerk to reach that level (sorry). Here’re are five traits that can help be the one no one likes.
We all have insecurities one way or another. But the thing is that excessive levels of insecurity can frustrate our partners or dates. It would stop you from believing the fact that someone likes you. And the guy you’re dating may feel the need to constantly prove his love and affection to you—which is tiring and unhealthy. (Psst, you can take our quiz called, ‘Am I Insecure?’ to ensure that’s not the problem).
Do you want to know why most guys don’t like you? Think about how needy you are in a relationship. Dating a codependent individual is comparable to parenting a spoiled child. It’s not fun, not at all. People who look for a healthy romantic relationship would never opt to adopt a needy partner because it’d lead to a toxic, one-way thing.
Manipulation or narcissism
If you are a selfish, self-absorbed, and manipulative person, don’t even bother to ask, “Why don’t guys like me?” Relationships require sacrifice, humbleness, and giving. Unfortunately, self-occupied individuals can’t handle those attributes and, eventually, blame others for being single.
Trust issues and jealousy
Romantic relationships are built upon mutual trust. If you constantly doubt everything about your partner, it will be challenging to find peace and love.
Aggression and abusiveness
Men might not like you because you are either too aggressive or emotionally abusive. Addressing your anger and emotional issues can lend a hand in becoming a proper partner, and stop asking, “Why don’t guys like me?”
Okay, Take the Test for a Real Answer to Your Big Question
Are you still overthinking things like, “Why don’t guys like me?” If yes, then you’re lucky to be on this page because we have a dedicated analytical quiz to help you find the true answer to that. The test analyzes twenty important factors that can determine why no one chooses you as a romantic partner.
It analyzes your beliefs, views, and thoughts.
The way you perceive social clues and signals and your views on guys, in general, are important. We’d use that information to identify why you feel like no man likes you and how it’s related to your own insecurity.
It looks into your previous experiences with guys.
Sometimes, things you go through might have traumatic effects on you, making you insecure or hopeless. So, the quiz also focuses on your experiences with guys, trying to figure out if your negative emotions are rooted in your past relationships.
Note: It’s a Unisex Test
As the QuizExpo team, we’re sorry to see that most other online quizzes about the topic are designed explicitly for heterosexual women. However, we’re proud to say that our questionnaire is unisex and delivers accurate answers for anyone interested in men, not just ladies, because hey, it’s the 21st century.
Our editorial team worked hard to make all the results and questions of the test respectful, considerate, and inspiring. But please, let us know if any of them bothered you or sounded inappropriate. We’re constantly trying to improve and will review your report(s) immediately. Now, enjoy the quiz.
How to Play?
Playing personality quizzes is straightforward: Choose the option that’s true about you—or you relate to—and select “Next.” Unlike trivia quizzes, personality tests have no right or wrong answers. But the questions are in forced-choice format. The point is to push you to choose an option that makes the most sense, not the one that’s 100% true. For the most accurate results, don’t overthink your responses. Go with options that you “feel” are the best.
Questions of the quiz
- 1What sign convinces you that guys don't like you?
If they say it to my face
Even the tiniest detail can convince me
My default thought is that all guys dislike me
When they don't pay enough attention to me
Treating me like a normal person
Doing things that my ex used to do
- 2When did you start feeling like men dislike or avoid you?
I honestly don't feel that way
I've been like this my whole life
After some unpleasant experiences with guys
When I realized I needed more attention
After I realized I deserved more
Ever since my ex dumped me
- 3What do you think is the reason no guy approaches you?
Well, that's not true. Guys do approach me.
I think it's because I'm not attractive.
It's because they think I'm not interested.
It's probably because they can't handle me.
It's because no one can match my standards.
It's because of my ex.
- 4What could convince you that you're wrong and men actually LOVE you?
I already know some men like me
Having lots of guys flirting with me
Having guys who want me despite me rejecting them
Having a guy who's willing to take care of me
A guy who treats me like a princess/prince
Anything opposite of my ex could convince me
- 5How would you (or did you) feel after getting rejected by a guy?
It wasn't (or isn't) a big deal
I'd feel broken
I'd feel stupid
I'd feel weak
I'd feel betrayed
I'd feel numb (I'm used to it)
- 6Which one describes you in a social environment?
Out of control
Classy and unapproachable
Depressed and distant
- 7Imagine a super-hot guy asking for your number. What would you do?
I'd give it to him
It sounds like a sci-fi movie
I'd reject him to see his reaction
I'd ask my friends what to do
I'd give it to him if he's rich, too
It reminds me of my ex. So, no, thanks
- 8How would you describe your exes?
Mostly nice guys
I don't have an ex
Cowards and escapists
Ignorant and cold
Not matching my standards
Jerks and a-holes
- 9What are you like in a relationship?
Supportive and responsible
Shy and avoidant
Independent and strong
Cute and childish
Controlling and dominant
- 10What's something about guys that attracts you the most?
Politeness and being nice
Confidence and independence
Guys that are opposite of my ex
- 11How would you approach a man and ask him out?
I'd be honest and clear.
I'd never be able to do that
I'd try to send them indirect signals
I'd be playful and silly
I'd plan a strategy to make them ask me out
I don't know how to do that anymore
- 12How can you contribute to your romantic relationship?
By being responsible
By becoming the person your partner needs
By being independent and tough
By being cute and loveable
By being classy and confident
By being everything my ex wasn't
- 13What should be the priority of the man you're dating?
My needs and wants
My struggles and goals
I don't know anymore
- 14Why did your previous relationship end?
I just didn't work out.
I've never had a relationship.
I didn't like him anymore.
He couldn't satisfy me
He didn't deserve me
He cheated on my
- 15What do you think is the correct approach to make every guy fall in love with you?
You can't do that
You need to be super-hot
You have to show some skin
You have to make them want to protect you
You have to show them who's the boss around
I don't really know
- 16What do you think about a man who got to know you and then realized you're not meant to be?
Good for him
I'm glad he doesn't have to deal with me
I feel like he's a coward who just ran away
I think he probably was too weak for me
I deserve better
It reminds me of my ex
- 17What would you like to say to your ex?
Good luck with everything
I don't have an ex
Make sure I never see you again
I'll always love you
Go F yourself
I'll never forgive you
- 18What type of guys do you think are best for a serious relationship?
Responsible and nice
Generous and giving
Confident and serious
Dad-like and protective
Rich and successful
I don't know anymore
- 19Choose the adjective that you believe describes your personality better than the rest.
Broken and lonely
- 20Final question; what's wrong with being single?
It makes you feel ugly
It makes you feel needy
It puts you in charge of all problems
It reminds you how unlovable you are