Quiz: Am I an Incel? 100% Honest & Respectful Test

Do you ask yourself, “Am I an Incel? Take this virginity quiz to find out if you’re an incel man or woman. It’s the only bias-free Involuntary Celibate detector

Signs You Are an Incel

Technically, if you are sexually deprived against your will, you are an Incel, an acronym of Involuntary Celibate. But if you vent about lack of intimacy online, hate on attractive males or females, and blame society for your virginity, you’re an extremist Incel.

A Bias-Free Quiz to Reveal if You’re an Incel or Femcel

As with other controversial subcultures and labels like simps, weeaboos, and furries, there’s a lot of online humiliation and harassment towards Incel communities. However, we wanted to create an objective quiz to see if you belong to the compulsory virgin communities or not.

• Involuntary Celibate: The term refers to people (often males) who are sexually frustrated. An Incel would usually define himself as a virgin who wants to get laid but cannot due to external or internal barriers.
• Female Celibate: The term Femcel refers to the female versions of Incels. It describes women who have an inactive sexual life despite their will to be active.

Why Would You Want to Participate?

The test is designed for individuals who’re overthinking things like, “Am I an Incel?” You should participate if you are worried about having extremist or controversial beliefs against a gender. Note that in some countries like Canada, Incels are considered a part of an IMVE which stands for Ideologically Motivated Violent Extremist movement. So, it’s crucial to know if you belong to such a subculture or not.

The Problem with Toxic Incel and Femcel Quizzes

Unfortunately, other online alternatives promote extremist and discriminating ideas. They judge your appearance and compare it to internal memes about Chad and Stacy, returning humiliating results. The most famous Incel Quiz starts with a question about your jawline, which is ridiculous. Plus, it redirects you to inappropriate 4Chan forums without asking for your consent.

The problem is that such tests actually damage the confidence level of the participants, especially when they’re facing sexual or romantic frustration.

However, the good news is that our quiz values and respects the participants. We do not call you an Incel or Femcel because of your looks. So, it’s safe to say that it is NOT an Incel Attractiveness Test. Our questions do not promote any toxic ideologies, and the results are unbiased.

Things the Incel Quiz Considers

The premise of the questionnaire is to answer things like, “Am I an Incel?” To do so, we go through three major aspects of our life: Thoughts, relationships, and feelings. Here’s what you need to know about each segment.

#1. Your ideologies

It’s technically okay to call an unhappily virgin an Incel. However, the community has deeper layers distinguishing desperate male supremacists from violent misogynists and innocent sexless guys. So, it’s crucial to review your philosophies on men, women, intimacy, and romance to develop a clear analysis.

#2. Your love life

Having problematic romance experiences is a part of being an Incel. Most individuals who declare themselves Involuntary Celibates also complain about being unlovable. That’s why the quiz has specific questions to expose any frustrations related to your love life.

#3. Your emotions

How you feel about relationships and life in general matters. Usually, you ask things like, “Am I an Incel?” out of concern about the feelings you have. So, the quiz wants to ensure there’s nothing to worry about. Most extremist Incel communities indeed promote hatred and violence against women. So, we want to confirm you don’t relate to such hateful emotions and messages.

A Psychologist Answers: Are All Incels Dangerous?

Dr. Todd Grande says, “I think when you see an extreme level of almost any ideology, there can be dangerousness associated with that. So, there will be a small portion that represents a threat and we that in [the hate crime and terrorist] attacks.” But he also believes that the majority of the community members are harmless and need help.

It’s Okay to be a Sexless Man or Woman, BUT…

You took the quiz, and it said, “Yes, you ARE an Incel?” What’s next? Should you be worried that something is wrong with you? Well, the answer depends on your views on virginity and sexual desires. If you have turned your frustration into hate and anger towards people, and you support violence, yes, you should be worried about the result.

However, if you’re more like an innocent Incel or Femcel who doesn’t feel entitled to sleep with others, then no, you have nothing to worry about. You should know that it’s okay to be a virgin—and according to CDC, 12.3% of females and 14.3% of males aged between 20-24 have never experienced intercourse before. So, it’s really not a big deal.

Virginity becomes a problem when you make it the center of your life. Having sex is one of the primal needs of most humans. But it’s not a validation tool.

Questions to Ask Yourself Instead of, “Am I an Incel?”

If you cannot stop thinking about being an Involuntary Celibate, just take the quiz and get a solid answer. But we believe that there are more important topics to consider before that. Here are some questions you should ask yourself if you’re worried about being an Incel or Femcel.

–           Am I a misogynist or misandrist?

One thing that can turn your virginity into something threatening is blaming others for it. You might have seen the memes about Chads, who are the actual reason why some less attractive guys cannot get laid. Such misogynistic or misandrist ideas are much more concerning than being a virgin.

–           Do I feel entitled to get laid?

The problem with an extremist portion of the Incel community is that they see sex as their right. So, they promote violence against women because they’re allegedly taking away from men what they deserve. But the thing is that no one owes you physical intimacy just because you exist.

–           Am I insecure?

Insecurity can be a byproduct of or the actual cause of being an Incel. So, you should take your time and reflect on your confidence.

How to Interpret the Test Results

We have created separate categories to finetune the Incel and Femcel test results. And depending on your responses, you might fall into one of the four main categories.

Extremist

If you have any violent, hateful, and biased ideologies against a specific group of people, you’re likely to be in this category. It’s not a piece of good news to be called an extremist Ince because it’s considered a terroristic belief in most countries.

Potential threat

You might not want to be violent towards society. However, if you support the hateful actions of others, you’re a potentially threatening Incel or Femcel.

Harmless virgin

This one’s probably the best answer you can get from the Incel quiz. It means that you are an innocent person who’s unhappy with being a virgin. You don’t blame others for that; you don’t feel entitled to get laid, and you don’t support any controversial ideology of the Involuntary Celibate communities.

Hopeless romantic

If you fall into this category, being an Incel is not your actual problem. Your concerns are things like, “Will I ever find love?” And you’re frustrated with the lack of romance and intimacy in your life—rather than overthinking your virginity.

Disclaimer

The quiz on this page is designed to help individuals who self-question, “Am I an Incel or Femcel?” It’s not meant to label you or discriminate against a group of people. However, as extremist Incel communities are associated with controversial ideologies, some might not like the results. Please, contact us if you have any concerns about the test questions or answers.

Questions of the quiz

• 1
  Do you believe that society favors particular appearance, and that's why so many young people identify as Incel?
  

  • No, that's just a stereotypical belief

  • I hope it's not like that

  • I don't know. But it seems like it is that way

  • Yes, girls only prefer Chads

  • Society is filled with women who're ruining it for others.

• 2
  What do you think should be done to help everyone have a healthy love life?
  

  • We should teach interpersonal skills at schools.

  • We should provide everyone with free mental health care

  • We should teach the young how to cross the virgin line safely

  • You can't do anything about it. Love is a lie.

  • You should teach women how to stay in the kitchen.

• 3
  Some say that it's women's fault that many men experience sexual frustration. What do you say?
  

  • No, I strongly disagree.

  • No, it's just because of a lack of romance in relationships

  • I hear that a lot. But I don't want to believe it.

  • Yes, I support the idea.

  • Women are responsible for the creation of Incels.

• 4
  What do you think is the most challenging part of being a virgin?
  

  • Feeling alone

  • Feeling unlovable

  • Sexual frustration

  • Feeling like a worthless trash

  • Feeling furious and ready to burst

• 5
  Unattractive people are often humiliated. Does that mean you have the right to humiliate attractive individuals?
  

  • No, that's irrational

  • No, but it happens a lot

  • I'm not sure about the answer

  • Yes, humiliated people deserve revenge

  • Eye for an eye. That's how you make it fair.

• 6
  Have you ever been a part of an Incel community? If yes, how did you feel about that?
  

  • No, I'd never participated in such communities.

  • No, I've been in other communities for heartbroken people

  • No, but I'd like to check them out

  • Yes, I felt understood and accepted

  • Yes, I felt like together, we can teach the world a lesson.

• 7
  Which one describes your frustration and problem better?
  

  • Work and financial stuff

  • Romance and love life

  • Being a virgin

  • Feeling irritated because no one loves me

  • Feeling furious because of the Chads and Stacies

• 8
  How do you feel about attractive and successful people who brag about their life?
  

  • I don't like them

  • I don't mind them

  • I can't stand them

  • I hate them

  • I'd like to punch them in the face

• 9
  How would you approach a person if you wanted to ask them out?
  

  • I'd ask them politely

  • I'd ask for a friend's help

  • I don't know. I've never done that.

  • I'd never do that because I'd get rejected

  • I'm not a Chad. So, I'd never ask anyone out.

• 10
  What's your idea of romance? What do you think about love?
  

  • Love is mutual respect, trust, and care

  • Love is unreachable and rare

  • I've never experienced it

  • It's just a huge lie told to the losers

  • I hate the idea of love and romance

• 11
  How would you react if an attractive person rejected you?
  

  • I'd feel sad but fine

  • I'd feel insecure

  • I'd feel disappointed—but not surprised

  • I'd feel worthless, stupid, and angry

  • I'd feel furious and ready to burst

• 12
  What do you think makes a person worthy of love and attention?
  

  • Having a loveable personality

  • Working hard for love

  • I don't really know

  • Good looks and six-packs

  • Being a stupid Chad or Stacy

• 13
  How do you feel about gold diggers and girls who use their appearance to manipulate others?
  

  • It's their own life. I can't judge them

  • I think that's horrible

  • They make it difficult to trust other girls

  • They are THE problem with our society

  • I hate them and would like to get rid of all

• 14
  Which one describes your emotions about being a virgin?
  

  • It's not a big deal—everyone has been there

  • It's better than being unlovable and alone

  • It's a bit embarrassing.

  • It's the fate of the weak.

  • It's systematic torture.

• 15
  How would you describe your relationship with the gender that you're sexually attracted to?
  

  • I think it's fine and casual

  • I get nervous around boys/girls

  • I am super-inexperienced in that

  • There's no relationship. All of them hate me.

  • I hate all of them.

• 16
  Imagine someone rejected you in a mean way. What would you do afterward to feel good about it?
  

  • I give myself some time to process it

  • I'd cry and talk to a friend

  • I'd keep it a secret and never talk about it

  • I'd never trust anyone else

  • I'd plan my revenge

• 17
  Do you agree with the traditional beliefs that men should be leaders and women belong to the kitchen?
  

  • No, that's a ridiculous idea

  • No, that sounds hateful

  • No, I don't think that's a good idea

  • Yes, I support the idea.

  • Yes, women don't deserve to be leaders.

• 18
  Why do you think people should date you and sleep with you?
  

  • I don't think they "should." It's a choice

  • Because I believe in love

  • Because I'm a nice person

  • I don't want anyone to sleep with me anymore

  • Because I deserve it

• 19
  Do you agree with extremist views that say women MUST take care of men's sexual needs because it's their job?
  

  • No, that's a horrible idea

  • No, that sounds scary

  • I'm not sure about the answer

  • Yes, I support the idea

  • Yes, that's the most important job of women

• 20
  Final question; do you think sexually deprived males have the right to be violent because of hormonal pressure?
  

  • No, no one has such a right

  • No, they should seek medical help

  • I'm not sure about the answer

  • Yes, that's inevitable

  • Yes, males should fight for their rights